Do you freak out when you think about the wedding? You are in love and now you decide to get together? and you are not so sure about this big step you are taking? So my friend you are not alone. Falling in love is simple, but taking the next step is tough. Most of the people encounter the same difficulties when they start to think about getting married to their loved one. They start to think about the pro and cons of their decision to get married.
1. People think when they get married they losses their freedom example- going out with fellows, coming back late night etc.
2. Spending all the time with someone, 24 hours a day
3. Thinking about the right time. The right time to get engaged or taking big steps for life.
4. Responsibility, Am I ready to take responsibility both of us. Start questing about their confidence.
5. The big one is fear of failure, What if I failed in future as a husband/wife, What if these things don’t work out as we planned?
1. to solve these problems you should face your fear. Acknowledge the fear of failure. Encourage yourself to fully experience this fear. Once you understand that what you are feeling is natural and occurs to everyone, you are already on the way to master it.
2. Talk it out man, talk with your partner, In 80% cases, both experiencing the same problems and talking about it with your partner will increases your understanding and makes you recognise that you and your partner both are in this together.
3. The best thing you can do seek advice from those you trust more your best man. Talk to buddies or elders who have been through it and ask them how they dealt with the same concerns. You can also go for online marriage counseling. They got professional counselor who will provide you marriage guidance.
4. And in last the question about losing your freedom. Ask your self Am I losing freedom or obtaining someone to share? In married life you got someone on your side to assist and help you with all your life problem is not it wonderful. So don't worry about your freedom it will not taken away by anyone. Take another step in your relationship and enjoy the beautiful journey of life.
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1. People think when they get married they losses their freedom example- going out with fellows, coming back late night etc.
2. Spending all the time with someone, 24 hours a day
3. Thinking about the right time. The right time to get engaged or taking big steps for life.
4. Responsibility, Am I ready to take responsibility both of us. Start questing about their confidence.
5. The big one is fear of failure, What if I failed in future as a husband/wife, What if these things don’t work out as we planned?
What to do to solve these issues. See the list.
1. to solve these problems you should face your fear. Acknowledge the fear of failure. Encourage yourself to fully experience this fear. Once you understand that what you are feeling is natural and occurs to everyone, you are already on the way to master it.
2. Talk it out man, talk with your partner, In 80% cases, both experiencing the same problems and talking about it with your partner will increases your understanding and makes you recognise that you and your partner both are in this together.
3. The best thing you can do seek advice from those you trust more your best man. Talk to buddies or elders who have been through it and ask them how they dealt with the same concerns. You can also go for online marriage counseling. They got professional counselor who will provide you marriage guidance.
4. And in last the question about losing your freedom. Ask your self Am I losing freedom or obtaining someone to share? In married life you got someone on your side to assist and help you with all your life problem is not it wonderful. So don't worry about your freedom it will not taken away by anyone. Take another step in your relationship and enjoy the beautiful journey of life.
