Sadly, being shy isn’t conducive to drumming up any interest for yourself. I really wanted a partner to share my life with, but one wasn’t going to fall out of the sky and magically talk to me. 

I’m still an introvert at heart, and big groups of people zap my energy, but now, I’m comfortable in that situation and I have no problems with being the centre of attention.

Dating Tips

Make your presence known

If a woman doesn’t know you, how will she know that you’re interested in her? So, make your presence known. Introduce yourself to her, talk to her about interesting things.  This can be the key to having a good date. So, basically, make sure she’s aware that you exist. 

State your Intention

To be clear there’s nothing wrong with being friends with women, but if you have a romantic interest in this woman it’s only fair and honest to communicate this to her very early on. Okay, so I don’t mean go all out and say.

Stating intention can be verbally, or non-verbally, or a mixture of both. It’s all about giving her the right signals that you would like something more from her when you’ve decided that she’s a good match for you. Don’t hide it.  Be a straight talker and one that portrays their intentions directly.

Be spontaneous

Don’t plan to take your date for a coffee or to a restaurant, instead, take her horse riding, sky diving, mountain climbing — be vigilant, make sure it’s something that she would enjoy before springing it out on her. Our first date was watching speedboat racing. I thoroughly enjoyed it, as did she. Getting her someplace where she would love to go, and being different from the general 

Above all, be respectful

Be a respectful dude. If you’re shy like I was then you probably didn’t have many offers growing up.  You’re getting to know each other a little bit better. Just be mindful and above all, respectful.

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Self Confidence Quotes, an extensive collection of quotations by famous authors, celebrities, and newsmakers.

Quotes to Boost Your self confidence because life is ten percent what you experience and ninety percent how you respond to it.

Top Self Confidence Quotes

Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.- Theodore Roosevelt

One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.- Arthur Ashe

We have to learn to be our own best friends because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies. – Roderick Thorp

Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you are right. – Henry Ford

You are the only person on earth who can use your ability. – Zig Ziglar

Life is ten percent what you experience and ninety percent how you respond to it. ― Dorothy M. Neddermeyer

One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.- Arthur Ashe

Have confidence that if you have done a little thing well, you can do a bigger thing well too. – David Storey

Don’t live down to expectations. Go out there and do something remarkable. – Wendy Wasserstein

Think like a queen. A queen if not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness. – Oprah

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Ending a love life is very hard, whether it was your decision or the other person’s decision. You may be dealing with painful emotions. There are various ways that you can work through your painful emotions and start to move on. Keep in your mind that getting over a breakup takes time and patience. If you think that the things don’t get better with time, contact to friends, family, or even a mental health professional for support.

• Keep your distance

 Even if you and your ex have decided to stay friends, break away completely from each other right after the breakup. This means not seeing each other, not being around his/her family members, no phone calls, no e-mails, no text messages, no Facebook, You have to stop talking forever.

• Organize your space

 A break up can signify a new beginning.

Remove all kinds of painful memory that remind you of your ex––a song, a smell, a sound, a place. Having these items around can make it harder for you to recover from a breakup. It can work wonders to clear your space of all these triggers.

• Get out and do things

 After a relationship ends, it is okay to have some time to yourself at home. Just make sure that you get back out in the world after you have processed your feelings. Make plans, go out with your friends, and have fun! It might seem awkward at first, but it will get easier and it will help you to feel better. Getting out and doing things is also important because you need to grow and maintain your social network after a breakup. Doing so will help you to move on with your life.

Go to your favorite coffee shop, go shopping, or take yourself on a mini-vacation.

• Beware of rebound relationships

Often people enter a new relationship after a breakup; this type of relationship is called a rebound relationship. Rebounding is not always a good idea. If that new relationship does not work out, you may have to deal with the pain of two breakups at once.

• Continue to take care of yourself

It is common for people to put less effort into self-care after a breakup, but doing so will not help you to feel better. Make sure that you are seeing to your basic needs for mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. If you were not taking good care of yourself before the relationship ended, now is a good time to start.

Everyone is usually on their best behavior in the beginning of a relationship. You should ignore early relationship problems, since many have of a way of getting worse with time.

So, if you notice something like your partner is controlling, or you two always argue over money — don't ignore it forever.

Being in a romantic relationship is a wonderful thing to most people. The end of a romantic relationship is tough. No matter how compatible you are, the issue can arise at a certain time. There are some problems from the beginning of your relationship so it’s best to move on. Here are some issues that'll only get worse with time.

• Having Nothing In Common

If there is just no common ground, it will likely lead to the couple eventually having separate lives, If you're an extrovert and they're an introvert

• Controlling and Demanding Personality

Since people are normally on their best behavior in the early days of a relationship, take note of any hints that they might be controlling or demanding.

• Different Habits
• Issues From The Past
• Boundary Issues

While we all want to love others 'no matter what,' we must first love ourselves and establishing healthy boundaries and standards is the best thing we can do, Once you do that  you'll have a better shot a healthy relationship.

• Financial Secrets

It might seem like a good idea to downplay your financial issues in the first few months of dating. And sure, you might not want to share too much info on the first date.

• Trust Issues

Trust is the foundation of all relationships.

Once the trust is broken, it's really hard to get it back.

• Ineffectual Arguing

Communication issues can get more annoying as time goes on. If you don’t do it well during the early stages of your relationship, it will continue to be a problem during the course of your relationship as life gets more complicated and challenging.

The guidance and advice from psychics will help you know how to deal with a break up or how to strengthen the relationship bond.

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